It is interesting as I just responded to one of your previous entries which was about networking, and the importance of connection within that.

I feel that connection originates from the sense that we are all one. I feel this sense is part of us, and even if we are alone we can still feel connected to the whole.

I think it is important to establish that difference when making connections with people, especially in regards to when we feel miserable on our own. This feeling might be rooting from some place else inside ourselfs. Even though it may feel like a sense of separation, it may not be a good idea to interact with others on that notion.

I think it is important to understand ourselfs first, and how we see ourselfs in the bigger picture, before encountering such connections with others. I feel this importance stems from who we are, our source and the rest follows.
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Next, I couldn’t agree with you more about the feelings of isolation that being alone most of the day can produce. I’m single AND I work from home, so unless I seek out connections, I could easily go for days at a time without physically seeing anyone else.

Your suggestions are great. Actually, through volunteering for a spiritual organization starting last year, I met a handful of women who are now like family to me. Whenever I need a hug, I call one of them up and they happily oblige.

Much love & peace to you!
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Hi Lance: I don’t think I could have expressed it as well as you did. I can certainly identify with the holding back part. Having been through all of these group experiences in recent weeks has made me realize that there is a lot to be said for these “lifeline” connections…perhaps we shouldn’t wait until we’re “in transition” to experience them. Thanks for sharing some great thoughts and for sending your good vibes here!

And I might add that our demeanor can have a real impact. When we display an open-ness, this is much more inviting for others to “test the waters”. And you never know what could lead into something really great…

Great stuff Tim!
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I think you’ve hit upon a most important point — and the great thing about your post is that instead of just talking about the subject, you provide some really great solutions.

I mean, these are really great ideas!

While I understand there are many reasons people feel isolated, since my experience is much more because of ‘physical’ isolation, I’d like to add one thing if you don’t mind.

Skype! I found that reaching out and actually hearing other’s voices either by phone or by a live Skype session (which is free!) also helps to combat isolation and stimulate creative thought.

Thanks again for this post, Tim. I was actually going to ask you about this very thing — thanks for reading my mind again.

Hope all is well in Chi Town!

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