Comments on: Why You Should NOT Network Like a Politician

By: Ana Goncalves

Ana Goncalves — Wed, 24 Mar 2010 02:02:37 +0000

Dear Tim,
I also think that keeping in contact with people whom one has connected with in past experiences is important, because it helps to build relationships and establishes a solid foundation between you and the other person. I enjoy keeping in contact with all those that I have come across with, even if sometimes the contact is merely one sided. There is always hope for compromise, especially where connection is concerned.
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By: Tim

Tim — Tue, 16 Mar 2010 14:31:20 +0000

Hi Walter: There is definitely a wide range of networking events out there which attract a wide range of people. I think its all about connection…passing out business cards for the sake of passing out business cards is a waste of time and bad for the environment But if we take the time to have an honest conversation and get to know (and possibly help) someone, we have a much better chance of having a better experience. Thanks for stopping by and sharing your thoughts.

By: Walter

Walter — Tue, 16 Mar 2010 00:56:10 +0000

Networking has been seen as shallow and I have had some experience. However, we can sense those people who meant well than those who are just collecting contacts.

By: Tim

Tim — Sun, 14 Mar 2010 16:01:24 +0000

Hi Marty: I know what you mean…networking can seem like a pretty shallow, self serving and sometimes terrifying way to spend time. It gets a little overwhelming when business cards get passed around. But I think it can be rewarding too. I am by no means a master networker, but I’m always looking for opportunities to meet good people and be of service. Thanks for stopping by and sharing your thoughts here!

By: marty

marty — Sat, 13 Mar 2010 13:33:24 +0000

I totally agree with you. This post was right on so many levels. I usually loath networking events. I was (in my former life) the owner of a couple of companies in construction, etc…, and we focused on sustainability. Whenever I would go I would get a ton of resumes, but not real connections to people.

I have been to a few recently where I find myself people watching to recognize the uncomfortable interactions with one another, and almost the look in the eye of what can I get here tonight.

The thought of calling someone just to say hello is almost petrifying to most people. We have to come up with “reasons”, and unfortunately they are usually when we need something.

I’m going to sit with what you said the next time I attend a networking event, and see if I can stir things up a bit.

Thanks for being thoughtful and inspiring.
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